Carol went to the cancer clinic for the first time yesterday, for orientation. They are moving very fast. Her surgical oncologist is wonderful. Her MRI is scheduled for Wednesday.
We got a reality check Monday, but Carol is remaining extremely positive. The prognosis for a full cancer-free recovery requiring only a lumpectomy as far as the breast is concerned is 100%, we have been assured. On the other hand, the reality is that the cancer is “Stage 2 or 3,” the lymph node is cancerous as well, and Carol will undergo chemo, surgery, and radiation.
Again, on the bright side, Carol has the best possible care and the best possible insurance. And the best possible husband. Just as soon as he gets over the shock. The good news on that score is whereas in the old days, he would cope by going to bed for a week, now his coping mechanism comprises buying used books and doing vigorous yard work.
Your support and love is deeply appreciated. Don’t forget about us. Every contact of any kind is a boost.
Love,
Doug
Toss in a few cold brews and Len and I will come by to scour the stacks and trim the hedges with you.
Give Carol our best.
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You’re on!!
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David and I are sending love and healing thoughts. Much love.
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Bruce and I are sending healing vibes your way! xoxo
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Love to you and Bruce!!
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I’m glad to hear Carol is positive and that she has the best possible husband, and your coping mechanism is very healthy. My thoughts and prayers are flying your way. Love ❤ Irina
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Prayers and Gentle hugs going out to you both, all the way from Connecticut and of course you’ll stay in my thoughts and prayers.
Pssst, try the library too = free books!
We’re all here for you, Doug and Carol.
Marilyn
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I can’t imagine how hard this is for both of you. You have my love and support.
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thank you, darling! every little expression of support means so much
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